well today is the second day of spring semester for charlie.  i am off work today tomorrow and thursday so the days seem long and quiet howver the final outcome will be worth all the effort both of us are doing.  i watched the oprah show today and it was quite sad as it was about a couple whose three children died in a horrible traffic accident.   It brought back memories of my sister who died at the age of 20 in an accident.  The couple had a very difficult time dealing with their grief but the out come was that they conceived and had a set  of t riplets two girls and a boy the exact same as they lost in the accident   miracle miracle